Way back in the spring, I wrote about my intention to start gardening this year. A friend came by and gave me some advice on soil preparation, plant selection, and building a fence to keep the rabbits out. My father-in-law built the fence. I bought five huge bags of organic compost and lugged them into the backyard. I rented a rototiller, lifted all 80 pounds of it out of my car, and dragged it into the garden. I went in the house to get a drink, and looked out the window to see Mr. Nguyen, the man who mows my lawn, standing in my garden plot, looking at the tiller.
I went outside and said hello. He looked at me, puzzled, and said, “I already did that.” Turns out he had tilled the soil and worked in some organic compost.
Huh. I thought the dirt looked a little fluffy. I thought maybe my father-in-law had been digging around.
Mr. Nguyen shook his head, and said very sadly, “This is too hard for you.” He helped me load the tiller back into the car, and I went and bought several plants. Tomatoes, herbs, squash, peppers. Full of excitement, the kids and I planted the plants and put in some seeds.
Not one seed sprouted, save a lonely sunflower. A late frost hit, and we had extreme wind and some hail a few times. I watered the plants faithfully although they began to wither. We live at the edge of a gulch, where the sun beats down on hot days and winds howl through much of the time. The plants struggled along. Hopeful, I kept watering and waiting.
And then we left town for five days, and temperatures rose into the high 90’s.
I forgot to ask someone to water.
Well, I think maybe Mr. Nguyen was right.
But I’ll try again next year…this time, with an automatic watering system in place.
June 26, 2007 at 7:42 pm
So funny. We just got auto-watering installed by our gardener. I have felt completely stressed out by my garden….glad I’m not alone.
June 27, 2007 at 7:10 am
I’ve always had a black thumb. ALWAYS. Then suddenly I’ve become mildly obsessed with gardening. I think the trick in my case though is that we bought most of the plants as actual plants. I have a feeling that if I tried to make things grow from seed they wouldn’t work (the beets and turnips I planted this past weekend from seed will likely prove this hypothesis to be correct).
–A
June 27, 2007 at 7:24 am
We tried a little bit this year too. We’ve planted red raspberry bushes, blueberry bushes, and strawberry plants in one area. I’ve got tomato plants and chives in another area. And then Little J has his own pepper plot with lots of hot pepper plants. We got into it late this year, but next year we’re thinking of expanding. We had to buy nets to keep the birds off the berries and a fence to keep the rabbits out of everything. Big J wanted to go organic, but his organic attempts were losing the battle with the Japanese beetles so he bought a bottle of stuff to kill them. This fall/winter we’re going to try to go after the grubs. And we’ve had to water regularly because of the drought. It is very hard.
June 27, 2007 at 7:50 am
Awwwww! I’m so sorry to heard that! It is a heck of a committment, especially when dealing with seedlings. I am very protective (and ridiculously proud) of my adolescents. But as you imply, there’s always next year, and you learn from experience. And just think – you can always set in springtime bulbs this fall before the ground freezes over, and early next year you can start planning again and start some seeds outside and… ok, I need to calm down. Sorry, too much caffeine.
June 27, 2007 at 7:50 am
I mean start seeds inside. Is what I meant.
June 27, 2007 at 11:25 am
My first garden was a total failure too. Then I settled for tomatoes, which have done marvelously for several years, so this year I have ventured back into it with peas, broccoli and carrots. The peas are appearing, but no sign of the carrots yet. And I’m not sure if those little green things are broccoli or weeds. Only time will tell.
The tomatoes are good, though.
Not as easy as it looks, huh?
June 28, 2007 at 1:30 am
I like the smell of wet soil. Don’t give up!
June 28, 2007 at 7:29 am
Sorry about that – what a bummer! I guess that’s why gardening is often a life-long endeavor, though – I bet next year your garden will be beautiful!
June 28, 2007 at 12:00 pm
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June 28, 2007 at 9:48 pm
Well, I feel somewhat better. Next year will be different!
July 6, 2007 at 7:26 am
I’m sure it will be. Yogamum, I have been gardening for years, and the key ingredient that I have found is essential to success is making the commitment to go out and look at your garden every day. If you don’t have the time for that simple 5 minute visit, you probably don’t have time to give your plants adequate care. To that end, the garden should be as close to the house as possible, to make the trip shorter. Starting with transplants is easier than trying to sprout seeds. Even if your seeds germinate, and there are lots of reasons they don’t, there are lots of vegetarians out there who find freshly sprouted seed to be very tasty, and your babies may have been eaten before you could recognize them. Carrots and lettuces are particularly picky about soil temperature. If it is too cold, they won’t germinate, and if it is too warm they won’t do it then either. “Best” seeds for germination success are peas, beans, corn and squash. And sunflowers, too. Quite often these are the seeds you find suggested for “kid’s” gardens, because they are easy to start off.
Good luck! I will be interested to see how it turns out next spring.